Friday, April 18, 2014

Only Way To Stay Happy

Recently Someone asked me " I am always caring, Helping and nice to everyone but still from inside I feel Hollow, What should I do to remove this filling and stay Happy?"

Then in reply I just Said " Don't Expect anything from from Others"
And that is the fact many of us fail to understand which is KEY to happy LIFE
When we help someone or behave hood to someone we EXPECT them to do same for us and make a belief that "BY GIVING HAPPINESS WE WILL GET HAPPINESS" which is a VERY WRONG and DISASTROUS belief and unfortunately very common .

All we need to understand is "Giving itself is Happiness". Because happiness is something which comes from inside, No-one, I really mean NO-ONE on this planet can give you Real Happiness apart from YOU.

Then I explained my friend with an example. I told him when a mother is taking care of her child Does she expect anything back from her like when her kid will grow up he will do same for her, NO she is happy by JUST making her kid happy and that is REAL HAPPINESS which is Permanent, Indestructible.

And One more point If you are happy just by giving and without expecting anything in return than if you get something back, whether little, Than it will be a "SURPRISE BONUS" and surprises always makes you happy.
 So final words
"Keep Giving Without Expecting"